I miss you, Nick. I miss putting down your blanket at the foot of the bed at night, and watching you fluff the material until you created the perfect “nest” to settle in. I miss taking you for walks and waiting for you to systematically mark each and every mailbox post we’d pass. I miss sitting in the easy chair with you beside me, alert – watching for birds and squirrels. I miss the way you loved my scrambled eggs and would wait patiently for your share. Whenever I was sick or feeling down, you would position yourself at the foot of my bed and listen to me breathe – like a vigilant nursemaid. You were the best dog this family has ever had – so affectionate and in tuned with us. I didn’t think I’d miss you this much, but I do. I wonder how long it will hurt so much.
Nicky Doyle 8/20/03 – 12/12/12
Sorry to hear about Nick, Dana…
Thank you, Ellen!
Oh Dana…I am so sorry. We lost our beloved cat, also named Nick, two and one half years ago. I thought the pain would never go away. He was the best pet I ever had. I think the depth of our sorrow is in some way a measure of their worth to us…to the love and joy they brought to our lives. I have had other pets who were missed, but for whom I didn’t grieve deeply. My Nick deserved every tear I shed. I do want to tell you that it does get better though. I never thought it would. I still miss him very much, but it’s not so painful anymore.
I keep two copies of books about animals going to heaven on my coffee table…one written by a Franciscan friar.
The beloved Catholic philosopher and writer, Peter Kreeft feels the same.
Meanwhile, I will remember you in my prayers, because I know it is so very hard to lose these precious little companions God gives to us. Sending you a big hug….Patricia
I might have to read that book! I am sorry for your loss as well, and thank you so much for your words of encouragement.
I’m so sorry for your loss. But I am glad he was able to know such love, and brought such love to you.
Thank you, Joseph. Animals have a way of worming their way into our hearts. They do bring such joy to family life. Nicky died of liver failure at only 8 years old. We are so thankful for the time we had with him though.
Losing a pet is so hard, not because they are a pet, but because they are a family member. I often reflect on pets that I have loss and feel saddened, but not for long. The wonderful memories we shared begin to flood my mind, and that brings me joy and peace. Praying for you!!
Thank you for your prayers. We really do have so many good memories of him. Those will carry us through – until we open our hearts to another one (eventually!)